Blink-182 – "Мен Сағындым" (2004)

2004 single by Blink 182

"I Miss You" is a song by American rock band Blink 182, released on February 2, 2004, as the second single from the group's self titled album (2003). Co written by guitarist Tom DeLonge and bassist Mark Hoppus, they employed a method of writing separately and bringing their two verses together later. The song features an acoustic electric bass, a cello, and a brushstroked drum loop. The song was inspired by the Cure song "The Love Cats" and contains references to The Nightmare Before Christmas (1993). The song peaked at number one on the US Billboard Modern Rock Tracks chart and peaked at number 42 on the Billboard Hot 100. Although "All the Small Things" had more radio airplay, "I Miss You" is certified to have sold more copies, earning gold certification for selling over 500,000 copies. "All the Small Things" has never been certified by the RIAA, despite Nielsen SoundScan estimating its sales at also 500,000 copies in the year 2000 alone. In the United Kingdom, the song was a national top 10 hit on the UK Singles Chart, peaking at number eight.

"I Miss You" was recorded in 2003, and began production at the Rubin's House, a rented home in the San Diego luxury community of Rancho Santa Fe. The song was written using the same method with which the band wrote "Feeling This"; namely, DeLonge and Hoppus would discuss themes and then set off to separate rooms of the home to write alone. The two would first have a discussion about the themes of the song "so that we were on the same page," and then they would go away to write, putting both parts together at the end. "Mark was always really, really good with words, so a lot of times I would ask him for help with things, to get help with how I say things better [ ] But we never really explained song meanings to each other," said DeLonge. The trio struggled recording "I Miss You" at first, originally employing a completely different chorus reminiscent of what they considered adult contemporary music.

The song is composed in the key of B major and is set in the time signature of common time with a tempo of 110 beats per minute. "I Miss You" is an all acoustic affair, featuring a piano, cello, acoustic bass guitar, and a "brushstroked hip hop groove." The song's production was very layered, requiring multiple tracks. "There's probably 50 tracks of instruments going on the record," DeLonge said. The song has been called emo and alternative rock.

"I Miss You" was sent to radio in early 2004. The song performed best on Billboard Modern Rock Tracks chart, where it peaked at number one for two weeks. The song also charted at number 15 on the Pop Songs chart, and number 24 on the Adult Pop Songs chart. On the Billboard Hot 100, the song reached number 42, and also peaked at number 44 on the Hot 100 Airplay chart. Outside the United States, "I Miss You" performed best in the United Kingdom and New Zealand; in both countries it charted at number eight. It also charted at number 13 in Australia, and number 21 in Ireland. "I Miss You" was supported by a controversial initiative dubbed "spin buys" by Billboard, in which labels, in Blink's case Geffen, spent thousands of dollars per week to have singles played multiple times from midnight to 6am at small and middle market radio chains. By May 2004, the track had accumulated more than 50,000 spins at radio, and more than 100,000 by July. The song was certified gold by the Recording Industry Association of America on October 25, 2004, for sales of over 500,000.

"I Miss You" received positive reviews from contemporary music critics. Jesse Lord of IGN praised the "well thought out dissonance" between Hoppus and DeLonge's respective vocal tracks, opining that it "expertly showcases and highlights the differences between the two." Nick Catucci of The Village Voice praised the song, writing, "It's how Tom and Mark zing off of one another that makes Blink 182 one of the greats. Name another two dudes who can so naturally share a tender, swelling ballad like 'I Miss You.'" A. D. Amorosi of The Philadelphia Inquirer wrote that "post teen amour drips through an acoustic 'I Miss You', with singer guitarist Tom DeLonge in Marshall Crenshaw mode." Spin called it an "interstate breakup song," commending its use of strings and jazz brushes.

In 2016, Stereogum ranked the song number four on their list of the 10 greatest Blink 182 songs, and in 2022, Kerrang ranked the song number three on their list of the 20 greatest Blink 182 songs, while Variety ranked it as one of the best emo songs of all time.

Chilean band Kudai used the drum sample of the song on their single "Escapar" from their 2004 album Vuelo. Australian band 5 Seconds of Summer covered the song on BBC Radio 1's Live Lounge in 2014. The song was a primary inspiration for The Chainsmokers' 2016 hit single "Closer". According to Chainsmokers member Andrew Taggart, the duo repeatedly listened to the song while writing it. In 2019, American singer songwriter Skye employed an interpolation of "I Miss You" in his single "Voices", posthumously featuring rapper XXXTentacion. In other forms of entertainment, the song appeared in several video games, including SingStar Amped and Rock Band 2, and was also featured on the television show Legit. DeLonge's singing style on "I Miss You"–particularly his verse lyrics "Where are you / and I'm so sorry", or pronunciation of the word head as "yead"—has been widely referenced throughout popular culture, and is considered something of a meme. DeLonge has publicly embraced the attention.

RegionDateFormat(s)Label(s)Ref. (Reference)United StatesFebruary 2, 2004Alternative radioGeffenAustraliaFebruary 16, 2004CDUnited KingdomMarch 1, 20047 inch vinyl, CDGeffen, Island Records, Island