Барбара Деминг: Феминистка, пацифистка и теоретик ненасильственного сопротивления.

American feminist and advocate of nonviolent social change

Barbara Deming (July 23, 1917 – August 2, 1984) was an American feminist and advocate of nonviolent social change.

Barbara Deming was born in New York City. She attended a Friends (Quaker) school up through her high school years. Deming directed plays, taught dramatic literature and wrote and published fiction and non fiction works. On a trip to India, she began reading Gandhi, and became committed to a non violent struggle, with her main cause being Women's Rights. She later became a journalist, and was active in many demonstrations and marches over issues of peace and civil rights. She was a member of a group that went to Hanoi during the Vietnam War, and was jailed many times for non violent protest. Deming died on August 2, 1984.

At sixteen, she had fallen in love with a woman her mother's age, and thereafter she was openly lesbian. She was the romantic partner of writer and artist Mary Meigs from 1954 to 1972. Their relationship eventually floundered, partially due to Meigs's timid attitude, and Deming's unrelenting political activism. During the time that they were together, Meigs and Deming moved to Wellfleet, Massachusetts, where she befriended the writer and critic Edmund Wilson and his circle of friends. Among them was the Québécois author Marie Claire Blais, with whom Meigs became romantically involved. Meigs, Blais, and Deming lived together for six years. In 1976, Deming moved to Florida with her partner, artist Jane Verlaine. Verlaine painted, did figure drawings and illustrated several books written by Deming. Verlaine was a tireless advocate for abused women.

Deming openly believed that it was often those whom we loved that oppressed us, and that it was necessary to re invent non violent struggle every day. It is often said that she created a body of non violent theory, based on action and personal experience, that centered on the potential of non violent struggle in its application to the women's movement. In 1978, she became an associate of the Women's Institute for Freedom of the Press.

In 1975, Deming founded The Money for Women Fund to support the work of feminist artists. Deming helped administer the Fund, with support from artist Mary Meigs. After Deming's death in 1984, the organization was renamed as The Barbara Deming Memorial Fund. Today, the foundation is the "oldest ongoing feminist granting agency" which "gives encouragement and grants to individual feminists in the arts (writers, and visual artists)".